There is a strange stigma that is often associated with boudoir photography. I have so often heard "I want to do these photos for my spouse/boyfriend/partner because I want to be sexy for them".
Stop right there!
Boudoir is NOT to feel sexy for one session and then it's gone. It's not 100% for the recipient. It should be 99% for the model, who is literally exposing everything, and is beautiful 100% of the time. To all men and women: you ARE beautiful (or handsome). YOU make the pictures exquisite. I just edit them. The material I shoot is what makes all my photos turn out the way they do.
Whether you have a new outfit to try out, some vintage clothes you never get to wear, or you have a new member coming to your family, boudoir IS for you. Nothing should ever stop you.